Let's Talk About Love

Episode 6 February 13, 2021 00:36:15
Let's Talk About Love
The Tea with Krema
Let's Talk About Love

Feb 13 2021 | 00:36:15

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Ema Alatini Kristofer Smith-Wright

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Ema and Izak have been dating for 10 long years. After all this time, we sit down and discuss how things got started and where things are going. Kris asks deep probing questions to learn more about the highs and lows of a 10 year relationship.

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Speaker 0 00:00:03 In three, two, one. Hello. Hello. Hello. Speaker 1 00:00:19 And welcome back to the T with crema. My name is Chris and I'm joined today by my best friend, Emma. And today we have our super special first guest here on our podcast. It's Isaiah, what to do, what to do. We have Isaac here joining us because this is the February month of love, Valentine's day episode. And so we wanted to take some time reflect on our own love lives, and by we, I mean, Emma wanted to reflect on my love life. So the only way I was going to do it is if she reflected on hers. So that's what we're doing here today. So I'm super, super excited. I know before we begin, just to check in with everyone, what T D y'all have going with you today? Speaker 0 00:01:07 I have with me today, eight green tea with ginger plus probiotics by Bigelow found at target at target, still waiting on my sponsorship. What are you drinking today, Chris? Speaker 1 00:01:16 Today I have a mango Lauer tea. It's one of my favorite teas. I forgot what the other part of it is. I just know it's mangoes and there's oranges and you can get it at Winnco in the little bulk section. Cause I also forgot the brand. It's fine. I'll come back and try again later, but it's delicious. That's my favorite shout out. Winnco AE. All right. So I do have a few questions, curiosities, you know, I'm sure our listeners do as well. This is a relationship that you guys have been having for 10 long, exciting, wonderful years. So congratulations hit in that 10 year, Mark everybody Speaker 0 00:01:54 10 years, 10 years also, Isaac and I have not seen any of these questions. So these answers are actually going to be pretty candid and we're going to see where it goes. So yeah. Thanks a lot, Chris. Yeah, Speaker 1 00:02:04 You're welcome. I'm excited. So first question, really basic, just a quick, you both have different perspectives. So I just want to hear it. What is the origin story of your relationship, but from like both sides, Speaker 0 00:02:17 Origin story, do you want to go first Ben or do you want me to? So I noticed Isaac while I was at track practice and he was at football practice. He was a freshmen and I was a sophomore and he was, um, stretching in a really big circle of football guys. And so they were all stretching and I was like, Oh my gosh, that guy is fine. And then one of my friends who I threw with on the track team was like, Oh my gosh, that's my boy, Isaac. And I was like, Oh, can you introduce me? And he was like, yeah. Oh, by the way, he saw one. And I was like, Oh my gosh, I'm talking perfect. There's no chance that we can be related. So that's also a really big thing. If you're not Polynesian, hashtag just Polynesian things. He was like, like I say, come here, come here, come meet my, and as he was saying that I, the truly rad, like ran away in the opposite direction. And so Isaac's first impression of me is me running away in these green shorts. And so Isaac and I eventually meet later on down the line. Um, but he could never find me because I was always usually stalking him. Like I would follow him. But like from a distance, it sounds a lot worse than it really is. It's just like really high school things. Anyway, Isaac, what do you want to say? Our origin story was Speaker 2 00:03:29 No. So the green shorts really had me though, because one day I'm just walking. I don't, I don't remember stretching or anything. I remember walking to the locker rooms and our school was kind of like, it was built a little weird. We had like everything in the middle of the school. And until after like the side is where the locker rooms would be. So we were, I was walking there and I see like my friend, Jared he's like waving me over. And he was like, Isaac, come here, come here. He's like, I have someone for you to meet. And like, all I see is just neon green shorts, just booking it to the parking lot. And I was like, okay, you know, I was like quite a distance away. And I'm like, okay, I don't know what's going on. It's weird. But when I get to him to see who he was talking about, I looked down the road and there's nobody like she, she disappeared. She was gone. So I didn't get to meet her. Um, he ended up introducing us later. Speaker 0 00:04:17 Also I would like to dispute the fact that it was not in the parking lot and we've had this conversation. It was on the throwing field and everyone that was there that day could back me up. So I'm just going to throw that out there. Can you still get up here? I still disappeared. She was gone. Speaker 2 00:04:29 Like I'm talking like green shorts managed. Speaker 0 00:04:31 She was never seen again. And that was the fastest she ever ran in her life. Speaker 2 00:04:35 Legend has it that she's still running to this day. Speaker 0 00:04:37 So yeah, that's our origin story. Um, eventually we started talking and then I actually asked him to go to homecoming with me, but he cut in and it was a whole thing. And then we were, we were just talking at that point, it just friends and getting to know each other. And during Thanksgiving break, we went on a date with, it's going to sound weird, but his cousin is dating my cousin at this point, Speaker 2 00:05:02 But they're not like actual cousins. They're like Speaker 0 00:05:05 Step cousin. So it was his cousin and my cousin liked each other Isaac. And I liked each other as well. And so we went on a double date to the beach and then that's kind of where our relationship started. So we celebrate that day. Isaac actually officially asked me to be his girlfriend and I believe it was January 14th. And then from there it was history. Speaker 1 00:05:26 So just note, you can run all the way away and things could still work out. Speaker 0 00:05:30 Exactly. I think from the more of the story is you should still shoot your shot, even if Nope, nevermind consent. If she runs away, Speaker 1 00:05:37 Sometimes you tend to be, Oh my gosh. All right. Well, my next two questions might sound similar, but they are different. So the next question is what is the thing that you enjoyed the most about the other person? There's so Speaker 2 00:05:50 Many things. How do you pick one? Speaker 0 00:05:53 Oh, that's nice. Speaker 1 00:05:55 Wow. If someone were to ask about Emma, I don't know. I'd have to like look for one, Speaker 2 00:06:03 Wait, what's the thing I enjoy the most, the most, Speaker 0 00:06:06 I have one Isaac's love. Language is like acts of service, which I really appreciate because that's the way that he shows his love to me. And so it's really nice to like come home after a really long day and dinners, clogged dishes are cleaned, the room is clean. And so that's something I always really appreciated about Isaac is because I don't have to ask. It just happens. So what's your favorite thing about me? I know there's everything, but Speaker 2 00:06:35 Man, no, no, no. Okay. Cause I was trying to like pick the best one, but uh, I think one of my favorite things about you is, um, how you always think like, or I'm saying you as I'm talking, but she always thinks that like, uh, she's the bad guy or like, she's not a nice person, but like I've seen her create like these random like acts of kindness moments and I'm like, dude, that's, that's deep. Like she's just a genuinely nice person. And I go, that's like one of my favorite things about it. Speaker 0 00:07:05 You're not the bad guy. Just that guy. Speaker 1 00:07:09 So you caught that, right? Yeah. Oh, that movie, everyone from rookie row. All right. So the next question again, sounds similar is different. What is the thing that you most enjoy about your relationship? Speaker 0 00:07:20 Oh yeah. I mean, that's definitely different, right? Like the individual versus the relationship, Speaker 2 00:07:25 I don't go fresh. Something I enjoy most about our relationship is how we've grown. It's wild. Like Emma really has helped me grow to be like a man in like every sense of what I had always thought a man should be. And like, that's probably like my favorite thing about our relationship is just how she's helped me grow and like how, in other ways I've also, I guess, helped her Speaker 0 00:07:48 Stole my answer. I was literally going to say that. I think my favorite thing is that we've evolved throughout the times. So, you know, 16 year old us is not the same as 26 year old us. And that's my favorite thing is because we've been able to overcome a lot of things because of the fact that we're both willing to grow together as partners and individually, Speaker 1 00:08:07 These are wonderful and they lead into questions is going to ask later, but you've already hit on them. So might as well expand on them now, how do y'all find a balance between like independent growth and then also the growth within your relationship? Speaker 2 00:08:21 Because me and Emma we've been together for 10 years, but we've always been distance by like school or something, you know? Like, so I think in a sense that like, that's what originally helped me. When we first started dating, we were in high school every day together, every chance we had to be together, we would just hang out together. And then when she went away to college as well, and I struggled the most because man, like I just, I didn't know how to do it. You know, it's something that I kind of just had to learn to get better about, I guess, in a sense, because I wanted her to be there all the time. I needed her to be there all the time, but I couldn't have that. So it's going to sound terrible. Speaker 0 00:08:56 It's like, you just do it like you have to. Right. And so I think there's a part of us that I don't know the right answer. I think, yeah. Distance definitely helped us work on ourselves individually. And it did have to become a conversation where we were saying like, you know, like if we want this relationship to continue, each person needs to play the role separately in order to make our relationship together, be stronger. And like, I will always go back to that, like in my own personal experience, you know, which has really only been Isaac. And what we found success in was that we both had our own thing going on, but at the end of the day, like we could always come back together and like we were working towards this goal, you know, of bettering ourselves for like our future family or future in general. Speaker 1 00:09:42 And I guess, I don't know if it would have helped to have told you my thought process and asking that question is because I've seen couples that why they grow together so much that they can't be apart or then grow so independent that then when they're back together, it's like, why, why are we in this relationship? We no longer have anything in common. And so I was just curious on how you find a relationship, especially one that did start at a young age where you still have a lot of growing, a lot of experiencing to do. How do you still find that balance of we're not like this and it can't be separated, but we're also not so far apart and so different that we no longer have anything to be together for anymore. Speaker 0 00:10:23 Yeah. And like, I think, and I discuss it all the time. Like we think about it and we're like, dude, like 10 years is a long time. And so, you know, everyone's like, wow, like how do you guys do it? Like it's hard work. It's hard work to, you know, to maintain a relationship and maintain, um, you know, like I will always love Isaac. I will always be in love with Isaac. And so that is something that we always have to like, make sure that we're on the same page. Yeah. Whatever. Anyway, next question. I'm just kidding. This is so awkward. Okay. And also like, disclaimer, this is like really hard for me to talk about my relationship with Isaac, because like I can talk about Isaac all day everyday. Like without Isaac there. Speaker 2 00:10:58 Right. It's a little weird that like she's on the other end and cause I pray, you can ask any of my friends, like every conversation that we have somehow weaving her name in there, like something that we've done together or something that she does. But it's weird now that she's like on the other end listening Speaker 0 00:11:13 Isaac and I do have these conversations, like we have these conversations. And so I guess it's, I don't know. Maybe it's a little bit more vulnerable knowing that like the collective are going to hear it as well. Speaker 1 00:11:23 You know, ultimately I just thought it was important that we had this episode. Because again, you wanted me to be in a very similar, vulnerable position answering. I would imagine. I don't even know what kind of question. So I was like, okay, well I'll be vulnerable, but this has to be two of us. I can't do this alone. So Speaker 0 00:11:42 What I'm hearing is that I brought this upon myself. Speaker 1 00:11:45 You did, and then you dragged Isaac into it. So Speaker 2 00:11:48 Well look see I'm a ride or die though. So Speaker 0 00:11:52 That's the tweet, that's it? No interview. We're done. Sorry. I have more questions. Oh, speaking of which, how do y'all deal with conflict? Speaker 2 00:12:01 I'm very, uh, non confrontational, which is weird. Cause I'm a very aggressive person when it comes to sports or competing, when it comes to AMA it's like driving, dude, I have road. Rage is crazy, but as soon as I'm off the road and I'm in the house and I'm talking to Emma, I'm like, okay babe. Speaker 0 00:12:17 And that's the thing too. Like in our 10 years together, I can think of maybe like three or four really large arguments that we've ever gotten into, but like normal conflict. We just know each other so well. So like we know when to back off when to give space, um, I'm also, non-confrontational too confrontation makes me feel icky. It makes my stomach, my stomach is actually like a Nazi right now as I'm talking about it. So it makes me feel anxious to get into confrontations. But when it comes to like conflict, or I know that I'm right with Isaac, I will let it be known that I'm right. And so it always ends up having them like, I'll bet you I'll bet you dishes for the week. That I'm right. And he knows anytime. I bet because I don't, I'm not a gambling person and he's on my bed that he knows he needs to back off because I know I'm like 99% sure that I'm right. So I still make the bedtime scared. But I guess like when it comes to conflict, like as adults there is that communication aspect before it was like, Isaac would like shut down or I would shut down. And when the other person would be like, Oh, what's wrong with like nothing. We're fine. And so now that he's like, what's wrong. I'm like nothing. I'm like now come on, let's go. Let's hash it out. Let's Duke it out right now. Speaker 2 00:13:22 He got like 10 paragraphs written to you. Speaker 0 00:13:26 But yeah, I think it's just, it's just a communication thing. Like we just talked through it most times it is a misunderstanding. Very nice. So it sounds like you'll handle this next question pretty well then who's funnier. How y'all know. Speaker 2 00:13:40 He really tried to stir up the pot right now, bro. Speaker 0 00:13:43 I think we're both funny in our own ways. I think together. We're hilarious though. I really do think that because, but as a person, like, I think I'm pretty funny. What would you say who's funnier? Speaker 2 00:13:56 I know for a fact as me, but you know what I'm saying? We just, we agree to disagree I guess. Cause Speaker 0 00:14:02 So funny. But Isaac also thinks I'm very dry humor and Isaac has very slapstick humor. And so we'll watch movies together and he'll be like laughing his butt off. And I'm like that wasn't funny. So he doesn't like watching comedy with me anymore. Cause I don't laugh at the appropriate places, I guess. Cause I'm like, this is dumb, but we'll watch movies and I'll be like dying and he's like, this is not funny. So I feel like we have two different senses of humor. Mine is a little bit darker as well. I think I'm a little bit morbid when I joke around. Speaker 2 00:14:29 No I D I, I definitely have a darker humor, but I think that's why I think I'm funny Speaker 0 00:14:35 Because Isaac also like he also be making up things in his head. He'll just start laughing. I'm like, what's going on? And he's like, got a crazy ass conversation in my head. I was like, Speaker 2 00:14:47 Nobody else does that. Like, I feel like I'm the only one. I just be busted out laughing, like just cause I think of the funniest stuff in my head. Speaker 0 00:14:54 I think the consensus is that I'm funnier and Speaker 1 00:14:57 We can move on when they say they're funny together. I mean, you know, it took us 10 minutes to get started with this episode. Like we had to hop and start and stop and start. I don't know. You probably hear it through the introduction that we're going with. I'm still in stitches. Could not keep it together. Had to fight Speaker 0 00:15:13 Because I think also Isaac and I like, we're really good at building on each other. Like we'll just start ad-libbing and just keep it going. My sister hates hanging out with us because she'd be like, y'all are just what is going on. Speaker 1 00:15:26 Can I get nothing done? Wonderful. It's great. I enjoy it as the common third wheel. Not complaining. All right, next question. You get a call. It's two o'clock in the morning. You find out the other person is in jail. Your first thought, what did they do? How do they end up in jail at two o'clock in the morning? Speaker 2 00:15:45 What did you do at two o'clock in the morning? Well, what was you doing? Speaker 0 00:15:48 Right? Where are you going at? Two o'clock in the morning without me. That's the first of all. Speaker 2 00:15:52 That's what I'm saying. Why, why are you out on the streets? What was you doing Speaker 0 00:15:55 To the streets? I really feel like if I was in jail, Isaac would be right next to me. Speaker 2 00:16:00 So two o'clock in the morning. I get a call like babe, I'm in jail. What did I think she did four. She tells me, Speaker 0 00:16:07 Let me, um, Speaker 2 00:16:10 I don't know. Cause it's weird. Cause you're not like you don't just, you're not out there just trying to fight people. So you weren't beating anyone up or anything. You weren't maybe, you know what? So here's what happened. Right? So Emma got pulled over for speeding, but then she like panicked and kept driving and like, and it became like this awkward stop and go with the officer and he was like, you know what, that's it? This lady, as soon as she stops or whoever the driver is, she's gone to jail for a long time. And then he put her away. That's probably what happened. Emma had an awkward stop with the police. Speaker 0 00:16:39 I really think if I were in jail and if it wasn't with you, Isaac, it'd probably be with Chris. Like I'd probably be stuck somewhere with Chris and it'd probably be Chris's fault that I'm in jail. I'm dad, Fred, Speaker 2 00:16:48 You know, it's funny. I like how you blame everybody else. What, if you, what if you was the one who was doing Speaker 0 00:16:52 I'm non-confrontational unless I'm like really drunk or is that part of your plan? If I were bailing Isaac out of jail at 2:00 AM it's cause he got into a fight. It would take him a very long time to get to that point. So I would also not be mad, I think in my head. Cause they don't just, they don't just take you away from having a speeding ticket. Right? Speaker 2 00:17:15 We have a stop and go cover to the East camp. He's probably thinking like, man, this person is on the run, Speaker 1 00:17:21 Going to jail for confrontation. And then Emma blames me. So okay there you have it. I put him in jail. Speaker 0 00:17:27 I called you Chris at 2:00 AM. I was like, I got into, I got like I'm in jail. Bail me out. Don't tell Isaac, what would you think I was doing Speaker 1 00:17:33 At two o'clock in the morning? What was Emma doing? It would definitely be an awkward encounter with the police. It wouldn't be for speeding. Cause I don't know if she knows where the gas pedal is in her car. Speaker 1 00:17:46 And it would honestly probably like her tail I was out, but the officer wasn't actually trying to like pull it over for anything major. This was like, man, your tail lights out. It's two o'clock in the morning. Like people can't see you. And she was like, no, I feel unsafe. I don't like where this is going. And like, yeah. I definitely agree with Isaac. It would be like a stop and go like she's like, am I going to snap here? I feel safe here. I'm just going to go all the way home. Like there's a street light. Speaker 2 00:18:11 Like there's a street light. Like just maybe a mile ahead Speaker 1 00:18:14 To the street light. It's not bright enough. Like, Speaker 0 00:18:16 So like how both of you put me in driving situations? Like I couldn't be at the club or something like what's wrong with y'all Speaker 1 00:18:21 Nice driving cars. Nope. Personally, you don't go nowhere. It would honestly, because like I stretch I nothing, but I should be coming home from like, McDonald's go to McDonald's. Speaker 2 00:18:34 She gets a fresh, she got the freshest large fries right there. Speaker 0 00:18:38 Now my large rides aren't fresh. Cause now they're stuck in my car because I got pulled over. Speaker 2 00:18:42 That's probably why you got pulled over because you're mad that your fries are getting cold and you tried to beat him up for like wasting your time. Speaker 0 00:18:48 Anyway, let's move on from this question because this is hurting my feelings now. Speaker 1 00:18:52 All right, well you'll get 10 years down. So pretty easy question. What's going on in the next 10 years. What do you see happening for y'all in the next 10 years? Speaker 0 00:19:01 So old, just kidding. I'll only be 36 36 is not old. You take this one either and if it doesn't include something Speaker 2 00:19:09 Well for sure. Yeah. That's step number one. But hopefully after you know, putting a ring on it, hopefully within the 10 years after we travel a little bit to, you know, if that put the ring on, I want to do a little bit traveling. Maybe we can get us a little Nino or Nina. Nina's see. I, I, I want to settle down with like three. I want an odd number Speaker 0 00:19:33 Five. Yeah. We went from three to five very quickly in the next 10 years. I hope that Isaac and I are married. I hope we have at least one baby by then. I will have graduated from law school. Isaac will have graduated us. Wow. We're both settling into our careers. That's like such a vanilla life. I hope we'll be able to like live abroad or travel, start a family vlog. And I quit my job and that's how we get our main source of income is from making YouTube videos. That sounds terrible at the bucket list. Family. I love them. I want to be like them when I grow up. Speaker 1 00:20:09 That's a lot going on, but it's okay. It's your 10 years do what you to do? I a house Speaker 0 00:20:14 By my mom, her tiny house, I guess that's all. Speaker 2 00:20:16 No, I think that's the biggest thing. If we do get a house within 10 years, we've got to have a little tiny home for mom because she wants to live with us, but not live with this. Speaker 0 00:20:24 So set that before too, like she's like, yeah, I'll live with you guys, but like not live with you guys, like in the mother-in-law suite, but not like a suite, like on the same land, you know Speaker 1 00:20:33 The mother-in-law property. All right. So the last thing I have is I'm calling the partner quiz. So I have the answer sheet to these questions that you've both provided for me. So you're going to answer the questions, not for yourself, but for the other person. So I have both of your answers. I did. Speaker 0 00:20:52 I have been scammed. I have been bamboozled. Speaker 1 00:20:57 So the real question is who wants to go first? Speaker 0 00:20:59 Oh, okay. That's rock paper scissors to see who wins. Loser goes first and on the first one. No best of three. Like you always try to pull on me when I win. Speaker 2 00:21:09 I got you, man. What you mean? I went on the first time. Every time. Okay. Speaker 0 00:21:12 Ready? John can a Pope. Speaker 2 00:21:15 I seen it too. I still lost. That's the crazy part. Speaker 0 00:21:18 Crazy. Anyway, you're going for it because of that. Speaker 1 00:21:23 And you want to know your score after you've answered all the questions for her. Okay, great. Speaker 2 00:21:28 Just a little disclaimer. I'm I'm more likely going to lose. Emma's better at this stuff. Speaker 0 00:21:33 I also, you know, it's so funny because as Chris sent them to me, I was like, he's going to get, and I said, what score you're going to get? And I was like, I think it's also hard. Cause some of these questions are I can, I know what you're going to say. And I know it's not going to be what I said. So I'm excited. I guess I should have put the question. I should have put the answers that you would have said. Speaker 2 00:21:51 Well, no, no, no, no. It's better way. I didn't game the system. It's better this way. That way everyone knows. I don't know. Anything Speaker 0 00:22:00 Shows you what 10 years will do to you. Speaker 1 00:22:02 All right, Isaac. So are you ready? Okay. So first question. What is Emma's favorite color. Okay. Where is her dream? Vacation spot. Speaker 2 00:22:13 If it's not like a Brazil, then it's Venice. Somewhere where they had like siesta time, because she's been there once. I don't know. It was somewhere where like the, because she went there once and the people like they have like a specific time where they don't do anything. I know, I know it was a sprint or you went there. She, this is how little I know. Okay. Next question. I say fitness. Okay. Speaker 1 00:22:48 What is Emma's perfect. Number of bedrooms and a house. Five. All right. Where is her favorite place that she's lived so far? Speaker 2 00:22:57 Oh, Hawaii. Hands down. What is her favorite food? She's going to kill me. Cause she's asked me this many times and I give her different answers every time. Um, um, I'm going to say pasta. Speaker 1 00:23:10 What is her favorite? Pastime. She gave options. So you just got to get one of them. Speaker 2 00:23:16 How many options you got? Three options, man. It's not a golf. It's reading. What Speaker 1 00:23:24 Is her favorite movie? Speaker 2 00:23:26 Oh man. I want to say the notebook because she always talks about it, but I feel like I'm way off on it. Speaker 1 00:23:31 What's her favorite book? Speaker 2 00:23:34 That's tough. She reads so many, like she loves me every time I read. What do I say about you? Oh dude. Okay. Because okay. Gonna make me sound dumb, but she reads so fast and like, um, sometimes like I'll look over her shoulder just to like see what she's reading and then I'll read, like, I'll start reading the page. The moment she turns. I read the top of the page. I get down to the bottom. She flips over. Like she already read the other half and I'm like, dude, are you even like enjoying these books? You just, you just looking at it. But yeah. Sorry. I digress. Let's go back to the course. Um, I don't know the Bible. Speaker 1 00:24:13 All right. What is now? This is her self selected best Speaker 2 00:24:19 Man. I don't even remember what I put for my answer. Um, her trying to think what Emma would say her laugh. Is that your final answer? Yeah. Speaker 1 00:24:30 What is her worst quality. Self-selected and she only gave one answer, but I would accept too. Speaker 2 00:24:36 You accept too because you have one of her too. She has it Speaker 1 00:24:41 Joke answer. So I would accept the joke part of her answer. Speaker 2 00:24:45 I would say like her worst quality is doubting herself that she put. Speaker 1 00:24:49 Okay. Okay. Okay. So I'll tell you your score after how everyone did. All right. Let's do it. Speaker 2 00:24:57 Oh gosh. I'm nervous. Speaker 1 00:25:01 Okay. Ready? Isaac's favorite color? Speaker 0 00:25:05 Uh, green or orange. And it's very specific green. It's mostly all greens for orange. And then third would be blue dream, vacation, spot Samoa or Costa Rica again, somewhere with a beach Speaker 1 00:25:19 Ideal number of bedrooms. Speaker 0 00:25:21 I'm going to say five. Cause he said five for me. Speaker 1 00:25:24 Favorite place that he's lived so far Speaker 0 00:25:27 And home and home California. Favorite food? His mom's spaghetti. And not even like in a ironic M and M way. Speaker 1 00:25:38 Yeah. No, for real. For real. It's Paul Speaker 2 00:25:46 And we get sweaty feet guys. Don't give her the market phone. Her Speaker 1 00:25:53 Favorite pastime. Speaker 0 00:25:55 Not with me because why not? And no, just kidding. I'm playing video games with his brothers and football. Okay. Speaker 1 00:26:02 Favorite movie? I think it's called life. I forgot to what that his favorite book, the Alchemist of selecting best quality, Speaker 0 00:26:15 His kindness. He's just a really nice guy. He's friendly. Oh, he can have a conversation with anyone. I think that would be his best quality. Speaker 2 00:26:21 Speaking of which that happened to me like on three different occasions today, like I was in and one of the guys I talked to to grant him gas station, he was going the same way on the highway as me. And he decided to like keep up with me the whole way I was going pretty fast. Speaker 0 00:26:36 So he was UV doing this. Isaac makes friends everywhere we go. And it makes me feel awkward every time, because I don't like talking to people and he just loves it. He made a friend. I was like, how you do that Speaker 2 00:26:50 Gas station? Who then proceeded to be my friend throughout the whole highway. Right? Speaker 0 00:26:54 You got to your destination safely. And we waved Speaker 2 00:26:56 At each other off as I got off the highway. Speaker 1 00:26:59 All right. So then what is this self selected? Worst quality. Speaker 0 00:27:02 His memory. We know his self is self selected though. Isaac don't be playing me. You and your memory. Be trying to get me caught up. I'm going to tell us what each other say Speaker 1 00:27:13 I can, if you want. Do you want the score first? Yeah. So it's actually far closer than I thought it was going to be way closer, Better than what Emma thought. Cause he got four out of 10 and then Emma definitely did worse than I thought because she only got five out of 10. Speaker 2 00:27:34 Wow. That's crazy Speaker 1 00:27:36 At the start. And then it just fell apart real quick. Oh goodness. So Emma's favorite color was red vacation spot Tonga. And then the number of bedrooms was four, which is awesome. Really arbitrary question. But I enjoyed putting it in there cause it's like, why not? Um, Hawaii was her favorite place to live. So you got that one for sure. French fries or steak Speaker 2 00:27:58 Dude, we eat pasta like all the time Speaker 0 00:28:01 Because we ain't got steak money, but we got French fry money, but we ain't got steak money. Speaker 1 00:28:06 I'm surprised you got the, the pass time there didn't get the PA is napping reading or CrossFit, which is weird. Cause you spent the whole time on the vacation talking about how much you liked to sleep. Favorite movie, a league of their own or Selena favorite book or the book thief. Her favorite trait about herself was her kindness. And then the two answers that I would've picked for the flaw would have been I'm perfect. Or in decisiveness. So for Isaac, you got all of the favorite colors, right? Like he was just like green and you were like, no, it's all the shades of green, but a very specific shade of green. Um, you were, you were getting, you were definitely getting the vacation one wrong, but then you were like, well anywhere with a beach. And then that's like literally anywhere with an amazing beach. So I was like, well, I've got to give it that the five bedroom thing you got that one, right? Yeah. It was five. But I really think you got to, um, cause he gave away his own answer, but I really think happened. Um, his favorite place that he's lived is actually Texas. Really? His answer it's right here. Speaker 0 00:29:08 Oh, it's favorite Speaker 1 00:29:10 Food is not his mom's spaghetti. Simon. It's Thai pork tacos with Saracha slot. Speaker 0 00:29:17 Really? You like that over. You're mostly getting, I'm going to tell her Speaker 1 00:29:20 You almost got the pastime wrong. Cause he put football and you like bear. They got that one. Right? His favorite movie, natural Libra. Speaker 2 00:29:30 I should have got that one. Right? Speaker 1 00:29:32 Terrible choice. And then his favorite book or no, whatever this one is the Alchemist yeah. Book and then best quality athleticism and then worst quality laziness and procrastination. Speaker 0 00:29:47 Ah Speaker 1 00:29:53 Like, no he doesn't. That's what it was. Those were, yeah. Speaker 0 00:29:57 I believe I got only five righty. Only five. Speaker 2 00:30:01 Okay. So like any outside of those questions, it's crazy because we've been together for 10 years and there's still so many things we don't know about each other, but there are so many subtle things that I know about Emily. It's weird. I can't explain it. But she, like, I know what she's thinking sometimes. Like I know what she has planned and like without anything, without her telling me, you know, without needing to do anything so weird, like I know her, but don't know her. Speaker 1 00:30:24 Right. Well that's all the questions that I have for y'all. So to close it out, we'll move into our work. Speaker 0 00:30:31 Rapid fire questions. Speaker 1 00:30:34 Isaac, did you bring a rapid fire question for us? I Speaker 2 00:30:37 Did. I did it one Speaker 1 00:30:40 Dirt for all right. Is there anyone who would like to go first this time? Speaker 0 00:30:44 Oh, okay. Well I'll go for a second. Okay. So my rapid fire question for today is what artists do you wish you could hear again or experience for the first time? Oh, that's good. Thank you artists. Any kind of artists? I'll I'll open it up to interpretation. I was thinking musical artist, but you have a favorite painter. Speaker 1 00:31:04 I could listen to an artist again. I don't know if this is exactly the same question, but I would want to see an experience and listen to the music of Moulin Rouge again for the first time. I think that would be, that would be, Speaker 0 00:31:16 We could be heroes, Speaker 1 00:31:18 Ken, Ken dancing and the colors and the tragic ending. It just, Speaker 0 00:31:22 Okay. What, what about you maybe? Who do you wish you could experience? Again? Speaker 2 00:31:26 I wish I could experience under 3000 again. I really liked them as a kid, but I didn't understand his music at the time. Like now that I'm older and I listened to like some of the things he said, I'm like, dude, that's crazy. He's pretty witty. Like with what? You know, it's just the way he does the music and everything. Speaker 0 00:31:45 I would say. I wish I could listen to her again for the first time. I just love her music. So much of you at her music official eat a bomb. Okay. So now next in the birth order, Christopher, Speaker 1 00:31:58 I always have so many questions. It's exciting. I'll go with a simple question this time. Can you saw a Rubik's cube answers? No, they make me angry. I hate them. So no. Speaker 0 00:32:08 And like, Oh you didn't even open it up to anyone. You just immediately answered your own question. I feel very strongly about Rubik's cube. Speaker 2 00:32:14 I can't solve them, but I am open to learning. I love doing like puzzles and stuff. Speaker 0 00:32:20 I feel like you would get it though. You're very good at puzzles. You're very puzzle oriented. I can not I'm bad at it. I can get one side and that's about it. I don't know. Cause I don't like, I know you have to like mess it up in order to get the rest of the slides. And I don't like that. It makes me angry as well because I'm like, I just got this whole side and you're like, wait, but you still have to get Speaker 2 00:32:38 Destroyed to get the other side open. Yeah. Speaker 1 00:32:42 Oh I can, I can destroy it to get the other sides. But one time I had a Rubik's cube. I just feel the stickers off and put them back this guy. Speaker 2 00:32:49 Uh you're one of those kids. Huh? If you could put yourself into any other world, like fantasy world, like books, TV shows, or like whatever you watch, what would it be? I can go first if you guys want to. So you guys can think of something I'd pick Pokemon. Cause like one of the features that like really just blew my mind was that whoever the character is, they can ride on any flying bird and that bird will take them anywhere than want to go. No matter how far, like you can literally travel the entire country on this bird's back. And I was like, I'm a heavyset dude. So my Speaker 0 00:33:27 What is the human burden to have brittle bones? Speaker 2 00:33:31 Yeah. My bird by bird can be training the growth. Speaker 0 00:33:35 You must have muscle training. This bird. Speaker 2 00:33:42 You can ride any, you can ride any fish, any water, animal or Pokemon. Yes. You can write any flying bird. Speaker 1 00:33:52 This pity is not carrying you anywhere. Speaker 2 00:33:57 We're going to make it work out. If it takes two or three of them, we can make it work. Speaker 0 00:34:07 Oh, the word home. Where would you go, Chris? I would think like you would go to like the world of avatar because then you could have APA, but like an actual thing. Speaker 2 00:34:16 Tired. That's my thing up. It gets tired. These like they do, they travel. What do you mean? You can, you can pick the farthest corner of the map and it'll take you all the way to the other side. Speaker 1 00:34:29 If I had to pick a role to go into, I am still thinking about it. Come back to me. Speaker 0 00:34:34 I would go into Harry Potter obvi come on. Now When God saw that I could ride on a broom that I know could carry me. Speaker 2 00:34:45 None of those kids were as heavy. Speaker 1 00:34:47 Okay. Wait. Now I think I have an answer. I got it. I think I would go. You mentioned it earlier. I think I would go to the avatar lands. Speaker 0 00:34:54 Like during the time of little avatar during the time Speaker 1 00:34:56 Of Cora, probably Cora. Cause you know, 21st century child, I need some like modern conveniences. Every time I take the quizzes, do you know what my answers non bender? Every time Speaker 2 00:35:11 Soccer would get along. Just rude. Yeah. Speaker 1 00:35:14 But it's like you it's fine. No, I would learn. I would have to be like, I'd have to pull out the like mayor Tylee aspect of non-binding. If I was going to go to this whole world of people who can bend things and I just can't do nothing. Oh, Speaker 0 00:35:26 What about, have you ever taken a Harry Potter quiz? Speaker 1 00:35:28 Oh, I took the official on, yeah. What were you slithering one at the time? Speaker 0 00:35:32 Yes, I was Hufflepuff. First of all, that's rude. No, I was, I was also a slither and Speaker 1 00:35:39 I would have figured if anything, like if I'd given a real answer, I would have been raving Raven claw, Isaac Griffin door solid. Thanks Isaac. Thanks Isaac for coming to the show. All right, Emma. So now that we're all sad and ready to go answered all the questions. Where can people find the podcast? Speaker 0 00:35:56 You can find us on Instagram at, at the T with crema or anywhere that you can stream podcasts. See you guys next time. Bye.

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